Sunday, January 19, 2025

True L.O.V.E.

Removing her / his clothes can be not love.

Taking her / his on date can be not love.

Sleeping together can be not love.

Sending romantic messages can be not love.

Giving romantic gift / money can be not love.

Taking romantic pictures and share online can be not love.


Love is taking a stand for your partner's rights and supporting her / him when she / he needs someone fight for her / him. 

Love is when someone sees your worse side and still loves you the same. 

Love is when someone calm you down in your darkest moment and holding you through to your tears. 

Love is when someone respect your boundaries and values your trust. 

True love isn't about physical closeness, it's about the unbreakable emotional bond. 


Love her / him wholeheartedly, unreservedly, love her / him good and bad as whole. 

That's the strongest bond that makes you both happily ever after. 


Love

Occurred 

Venerable 

Endurance 

❤️

Saturday, December 14, 2024

色。香。姿。韵。历 | 花赏嬅想侬

在古代中国,人民把水仙、栀子、百合、梅花、菊花、桂花和茉莉花合称 "七香"。

水仙百合就占据了二香的合体。
古代的赏花,看的是颜 (色)、(香) 气、(姿) 态、花 (韵) 和 (历) 时也就是我们说的季节。


玘丛纷披花满枝, 

水仙百合入凡席;

喜赠伊人添艳姿,

抛卿允郎共融谛; 

胜迎天引悦初挚。


引用明代画家陈道复的《题秋海棠》一小段

风前袅袅学低垂, 墙根昨日开无数, 
也不如碧玉佳人独占一方。


朝朝暮暮,原来天意早已命中注定。


Thursday, December 12, 2024

Symbolic of Lily of Incas


I'm surprised after I done a web search and found the meaning of Lily of Incas by colors.













Varieties of flowers but you choose them.
Is that called an arrangement of faith? 
Fit perfectly ❤️
千花百卉, 偏偏就选它。
注定的巧合, 完美的诠释 ❤️

The alstroemeria flower has an array of meanings that always connect to a similar meaning of friendship, love, strength and devotion.

They’re often thought to represent mutual support and the ability to help each other through the trials and tribulations of life.
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Lily of the Incas also called as "Rainbow Flowers" or Peruvian Lily.
It looks alike "Lily" and "Daffodils". 
'水仙百合' 又名 “彩虹花”、"六出花" 或 "秘鲁百合"。
日文也叫 アルストロメリア Alstroemeria。
它像百合又像水仙, 故被称为"水仙百合"。

It has 6 petals which are very magnificent and colorful and two out of them has sharp bright colored spots. 
花色非常瑰丽多彩花瓣6枚, 其中2枚常有明艳彩斑。

It gives European style to your place and it has very good water absorption.
Hence, it has longer vase life.
百合水仙主花朵细致, 具有欧洲风格且吸水性佳, 瓶插寿命长。

Origin from Peru, South America.
原产地在南美秘魯一帶。

As it covers all over the north and south of South America, some are more cold resistant (-12°c) and some are more heat resistant.
因为原产地遍及南美洲的南北部, 所以有些耐寒 (零下12度) 有些比较耐熱。

It can only tolerate temperatures around 0°c.
Alstroemeria must have enough light, a cool and dry place. 
多数只能容忍摄氏零度左右的气候。
六出花必须有足夠光照, 凉爽干旱的地方。 

人如花也需要滋养的, 不管你是男生还是女生。

Sunday, December 08, 2024

打着镀金名号的要

人真的不能什么都要。

很多女生都梦想找高富帅的另一半, 
很多男生都梦想找漂亮温柔又能干。
那是你看呕 (偶) 像剧看太多了。 


试问以下哪个状况不成立:

(一) 男生长得高好看但未必有钱;

(二) 男生长得好看有钱但未必高;

(三) 男生长得有钱高但未必好看。

(四) 能干的女生可能漂亮但怎么温柔;

(五) 漂亮的女生可能温柔但未必能干;

(六) 温柔的女生可能能干但未必漂亮。


模特儿出身的都不一定觉得自己长得高; 
艺人顶着那张明星脸都不一定满意自己的皮囊; 
百万亿万富翁身价上百万上亿都不觉得银行户口里的银额足够。
当你不是芸芸众生中长得特高, 别认为自己很高;
当你不能从身上随时调出现金美金上百万,别认为自己很有钱;
当你不是身为横跨国际名模或艺人的模范,别说自己很帅。

倘若你不是高富帅,对方图你什么?
如果妳不是漂亮温柔能干,对方图妳什么?
说穿了,爱你。


Saturday, December 07, 2024

定足的胆怯

自己爱不爱一个人是能打从心底感受到的真实感。
爱情本是感情事,感情事就是受荷尔蒙与化学物刺激而产生的激动情绪转化成的感知,三司也无法审核。

常常听很多人重复说 "不适合" "无法忍受" "不对的人"。
确实天时、地利、人和除了谋事、谋人很重要之外, 在寻爱过程中也得零误差。
不对时间遇上不对类型的人, 不通;
对类型的人在不对时间遇上, 不通;
对的时间遇上不对类型的人, 不通。
本爷说的是,该找对的类型而不是对的人
很多时候, 当自己慢慢发现伴侣与自己理想中的那个 "对的人" 有差别或者发生了一些摩擦时, 很多人有可能主观认为 "这个人与我天生不适合" 然后不久就直接结束关系。
心理学家认为这个世界上并没有所谓的 "唯一命中注定的 "灵魂伴侣" (soulmate)。
如果你分得清 "合适" 与 "适合" 的区别, 那你就能明白道中道。
沟通、信任、理解、情绪处理、问题处理才是携手面对细水长流爱情主要衡量。


爱就果敢去爱,不爱就勇敢拒绝。


怕突如其来措手不及的爱情而胆怯;
怕距离的约束而犹豫不决;
怕两人的磨合无法适应而退缩;
怕自己被假象和期待而蒙蔽塞聪;
怕深爱后陷入困境而遍体鳞伤;
怕自己的缺点被看见而裹足不前;
怕爱情无法开花结果而三思考核;
怕。
你怕,难道她/他不怕?
你思考,难道对方没思考?
看透的人才会处在挣扎, 但往往在混浊的沼泽里只会越挣扎就越陷越深。

在你中庸的时候,选择了你;
在你需要的时候,协助你;
在你要承担的时候,肩膀借你;
在你低潮的时候,陪着你;
在你无言以对时,明白你;
陪你笑,陪你哭,陪你闹,陪你疯,陪你一起努力。
赋予身体力行的相随、相伴、尊重和空间。

她/他经济条件和你差不多时,她/他也当机立断给予承诺不会嫌弃你、抛弃你。

能遇上这么一个人,只能说一生可遇不可求。

两人如果有心细水长流,路是人走出来的。
办法总比困难多而办法是两人一起携手共创、并进、同行。
自己选择止步只会让感情搭上自己跑进死胡同僵局。
两人的事就得两人一起面对。
对, 时间会给你答案, 但,  别忘记时间也不等人。
冰冻三尺非一日之寒。
计划总会有赶不上变化的时候呀。。
别让自己留下 "早知道" 和 "后悔" 的对白给自己。

******
经历新冠肺炎, 无尽的人聚人散, 劫后重生, 无法不看开和及时行乐。
大爱依旧,私爱一份一生足以。

Sunday, December 01, 2024

Lifetime Birthday Gift, ONLY ONE

Best birthday gift ever in life is you.

*******
We met, we know each other for very long time but we never thought we will been together.
We weren't that close until we have multiple topics on travel, foods, schoolmates, scenery, astrology, jokes, languages, movies, anime, politics, economy, news, hobbies, sports, music, technology, relationship and many more.
Dare not get closer yet wish can go forward.
Status at that moment still "in relationship" literally. 

Can't wait to see you again and finally we met physically.

We were couple officially in another country. 

You love to hug me, surprised me from the back, flirt me, telling adult jokes, laugh loudly and getting happier when my face turned red, getting me be your personal model, love me by all of your heart. 


"I'm insane...
I made the craziest decision respond to your love; 
I made the craziest decision to get together;
I made the craziest decision to have you;
I made the craziest decision to give you promises;
I made the craziest decision to be where you are.

Regret? 
No, I don't regret at all." 

Holding hands, hug tight, kissing numerously, having jokes, sweet talks, spending quality time together etc etc etc...  
We touch, we listen and we feel each other closely.

You could be playful, 
you could be a womanizer, 
you could be a ladies man BUT there ain't any party girl.

True love exist and it's real. 
That's us. 
We share the same or extremely similar core personal values, fundamental values, philosophies even background and we realized exchanging of opinions do help each other view things differently also we correct each other mistake or provide better suggestions. 

Time is dicking and we ain't couple once we apart. 
Separate? He holds the answer.
******

She handed her heart to you.
Is the choice of whether you return yours or you crush hers. 

She knows you are evil and you can be devil since first day although you both too close and yet too close. 
You worry you may lose her if you show her the evil you. 
That's why you repeating this statement to her. 
She knows your hesitation that's why she proofs you with actions. 
You decided to be kind, be naughty, be good, be caring, be romantic under the affection of love to her. 
That means you willing give her the softness of yourselves. 
That's why she chooses you, nothing besides that. 
This called true love. 

Love is friendship that has caught fire, like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it. 
To love is to recognize yourself in another.  
Love is when you sit beside someone doing nothing, yet you feel perfectly happy.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
The best thing to hold onto in life is each other. 
If you find someone you love in your life, then hang on to that love. 


May you all find the true love and building a stronger bonding between you two. ❤️ 


Sunday, July 21, 2024

Flying Without Wings

Not sure how much you can be firm on what you've been determined.
Man usually firm on decision once make up his mind.

Lately deep thoughts of how much time I left, how many years I still can work, how much money I can make, how much I need to ready as own emergency fund and even retirement. 
All these suddenly slipped in my mind.

I decided let go someone not important to me,
I decided let go someone do not love me by heart,
I decided have more readings and listening,
I decided upskill myself technically,
I decided leave the country where I born,
I decided live and work in another country,
I decided being alone (I have crush but that person doesn't know). 

Freedom is precious. 
Fly high while I can until the day I felt from the sky. 

Friends, maybe is time for you to come out from comfort zone too. 

All the best! ❤️